My wife has a private Myspace account...?

First, let me give you some background. I was looking in the IE history for a page I had visited and came across this information.

My wife has a myspace account and I saw a partial communication between her and some guy. Her profile says all the correct information except her marriage. It say that she is in a relationship and NOT that she is married.

She was contacted by this guy and the communication between them is as follows:

He says where he works, never been married, has no children but loves kids and that he is looking for friends and dating. He then states that he wants to know more about her. In her reply, she tells him the number of her (OUR) children, the industry where she works and how much she loves and adores her kids. She says nothing about the fact that she is married. Then she asks him, what is he looking for?

Here is what I want your opinion on:

1) What kind of people or the state of mind are the people who have myspace accounts?

2) What is she upto?

My wife has a private Myspace account...?

All sorts of people have MySpace accounts; those who are honorable and those who are not. If you ask me, I think something is not quite right with regards to that particular communication between that guy and your wife. It sounds like she is hiding something and that, in turn, speaks volumes to me. She is not being honest about the fact she is married so I would interpret that to mean she is looking for a fling with someone, even if just an emotional one thru email.

Turn the tables on her. Come out and ask her about her MySpace page or you can ask her in a different way by creating an account yourself and sending her a "Friend Request." Oh to be a fly on the wall when she goes into her MySpace account and finds an email there waiting from you!

My wife has a private Myspace account...?

Lots of people who do this are not serious.....just looking for a little bit more. They are safe in the knowledge that they will never have to prove or disprove that their life-stories are true. But I agree it's a little disturbing. I know I wouldn't be happy if I discovered something like that.

Talk to her about it. x

My wife has a private Myspace account...?

we had a girl like this at my work - she got fired for not doing any work, she was on my space all day.

she had a bf, however on her myspace it said she was single and looking, and had a description about what she wanted and what she was looking for in a relationship ...

we at work believe she was cheating on the guy, actually we know she was cheating because she was a bit of a sl#@!

one idea is for you to create your own myspace as a different person and see what she is doing that way - you can speak to her and chat to her on myspace as a different person and see how she reacts, how far it goes, etc ...its sneaky, but if she is acting suspicious maybe you should be too until you know for sure ...

if i were you, i would then discuss this with your wife.

Aske her about myspace, if people ask her about her status and what she tells them. Id then tell her what you discovered, and see what she says. I think that if she gives you an excuse like 'oh, im trying to find someone for my friend' or 'im looking for friends', or tries to cover it up and hide it, she is definately up to somethign and trying to see who else is out there and who else wants her ...

My wife has a private Myspace account...?

On myspace,there is no place that you can write in"married",I don't think.

"In a relationship"means "married"when people see it.

I doubt it's what you think.

Myspace is very normal.

Instead of reading her buisness,why don't you start you own account.

I think you are being jealous and should not look through her stuff.

Are you always that way?

Do not drive her away.

There is nothing wrong with myspace.

I have feeling you may be a controlling towards her.

Relax and just love and accept her for who she is.

My wife has a private Myspace account...?

It really could be nothing. Maybe she is just looking for someone to talk to. or maybe she is needing someone to make her feel good. Have you told her that you found her my space? if not maybe just start paying more attention to her. Tell her she looks nice every so often, take her out to dinner in the middle of the week things you two did when your relationship was new. I think she is just needing some attention.

Good Luck

My wife has a private Myspace account...?

All kinds of people use Myspace, so can't make any judgement about what kind of person he is or for what reason your wife created a profile. Her not being honest about her situation is not a good sign. The internet has opened up a whole new way for people to be unfaithful. It may never necessarily become anything more than chat, but she shouldn't be doing it. Period. That's my opinion, but I'm sure plenty of people would probably tell you that it's harmless.

My wife has a private Myspace account...?

1. Most people on MySpace are nice enough; but then again, I don't accept friends that I don't already know in real life, or that one of my friends don't know.

There are some nut bags out there though!

2. I'd be suspicious. You could confront her about it.

You weren't snooping on her, but you found it anyway.

She needs to tell you what's up. She could be just presenting an "on-line persona" and might not intend to do anything but chat with people; Or she could be looking for more.

Or you could be a little more sly about it.

Make your own page, use your wedding photo for your picture and make a photo gallery of the two of you, request her as a friend.

Then you can post bulletins, and comments on her page, saying something like, how much you love your beautiful wife, the mother of your children....etc.

If she denies your posts, or refuses to add you as a friend, you'll have your answer!

My wife has a private Myspace account...?

I would worry less about the myspace acount...and worry more about the fact she is leading a man on. From the sound of her conversation she is unhappy in your marriage. I know because I would flirt with men like that before I left my first husband. He had cheated on me so I had good reason to act that way (IMO) However maybe you aren't meeting her needs, making her feel desired. For women feeling desired is more then sex.

I would confront her and I really don't see the point in a spouse having a myspace page unless it is a open family page.

My wife has a private Myspace account...?

I had the same problem with my boyfriend and thru a lot of fighting he finally stopped, my opinion if your not single you shouldnt be on there because if you are you are looking for something, and its cheating bottom line...and to lie about your relationship status, and to not inform you she has one its time for you to confront her.... better yet set up your own account with another pic of course and add her as friend and go from there, you might not like what your going to find out...

My wife has a private Myspace account...?

You already know what she is up too. She is looking.

My wife has a private Myspace account...?

Some not all of the people on MY Space are looking for someone to have sex with.

As for what is she up to there is no need to tell you that because you already wrote it out .

she is being sneaky and she has denied your marriage you need to talk to her about it am sorry to say but you only caught that one thing there could of been more that you just haven't seen. Confront her with the evidence so there is know way she could deny it.

or you can get an account and become one of her friends and see what her intentions are

My wife has a private Myspace account...?

My space is where my husband met the person he ultimately left me for. He was on it all the time and insisted it was innocent. Maybe some of it was...but it only took that once. I have a negative opinion of my space. Have you noticed on some of the yahoo questions how technology plays such a huge part in cheating nowdays? It's all about the internet, my space, text messaging etc. In my opinion, if you can't do or say something with your spouse standing next to you, it's wrong. Lying about being married....wrong. And...hurtful to you I'm sure. I'd really keep an eye on it. I wish I wouldn't have taken my husbands word about the innocence of "my space". Good luck and God bless.