Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a

Well, I guess the question shouldn't be "should I be upset," because I AM upset. What I really want to know is if I'm wrong for being upset. I've had a myspace page for a year now-- the same one for 12 months. He had a page, cancelled it, then made a new page without telling me about it. I saw that he had it just about a month ago, but I never let him know I knew. Then today, I searched for him and found that his page is private! WTF??? This, to me, indicates that he has something to hide. Why wouldn't he invite me as a friend, or in the very least, tell me that he was back on? The last time I saw his page, I noticed he had some scantily clad women on there. No biggie, til I noticed all of them live in Atlanta, where he lives (I'm 2hrs away), and is a prominent PHYSICIAN (Gold diggers will be on him like white on rice)! Now it's private?? Should I confront him, or let it go? I feel justified in asking him about it, but I don't want to make something outa nothing. Advice?

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

don't go crazy and make him think that when you get married you will always be on his tip about everything. Send him a message or add him as a friend, better yet just Add him as a friend then if the next time he's on he doesn't accept then you should question him about it. Also, if he accepts make sure your his number 1 friend if not you have some problems especially if its a female besides his mom and sisters. But, you do have the right to be upset because yall are supposed to be upfront and open even over such small things as a myspace page.

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

yeah i would be that is crazy he should have given you the password even!

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

I would be upset because that means he is hiding something from you. Girl he ain't no good if he isn't completely honest. No future without honesty.

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

LOL

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

yes, secrets and lies are not a good basis for a marrige...

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

cancel yours and make a new one and make yours private...

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

You should be mad he has a myspace period...think of what myspace is for!!!

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

Um - I don't think you are mature enough to be married if you maintain a personal my space page.

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

Confront him %26amp; get it out in the open. You don't want to get married %26amp; then find stuff out!!!! Could be he "overlooked" adding you but I'd be suspicious.

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

Just ask him. You should be able to communicate how you feel to him.

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

lol no just get even...put a keylogger program on the computer, get his password then check out his myspace on your own!

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

Cell phones and myspace are the new weapons girls use to be mad bout something

I've never done myspace and barely use my cell phone

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

I agree with you! I would be very upset and suspicious. He is obviously trying to hide something from you. I would talk to him about it.

If he is hiding things from you, maybe you should call off the engagement. I'm not trying to jump to conclusions, but people who are happily engaged don't usually keep secrets from each other. Good luck!

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

hell yea u should confront the bastard! that ain't right.

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

break it off entirely and don't bother with a expanation or confrontation. marry this guy and you are in for heartache like you can't imagine.

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

advice is...drop him like a hot potato. He's lied about the page and he's probably lied/lying about other things. (including the 1/2 naked women). You can't trust him...if you can't trust him now...you won't be able to trust him when you're married...(and he'll keep on lying.)

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

Keeping secrets already and he hasn't even said "I do". Yeah I would be more than curious!!

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

If it looks like a snake, acts like a snake, it's probably a snake. If you confront him, he'll probably bite too. I would just ask him as calmly as possible. It sure does seem suspicious.

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

This situationseems pretty fishy hun. You must call him out on it, but don't be overly agressive because his defensiveness will only bother you more. Sit down and have a talk with him about it, you have every right to be upset. It is time for the two of you to evaluate your relationship.

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

You should definitely confront him about it! If he is your fiancee, there is no reason to have a private page like that unless something is up.

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

First of all - I feel your concern right now. That is a horrible thing to find out. I would definetly confront him about this because you may have the chance to prevent a bigger problem from happening. Tell him what you saw on the computer. Tell him how it makes you feel, but don't come accross as rude or inconsiderate. Just let him know that you are a little concerned about it and simply ask him "do I have anything to worry about?" see what his answer is. I wish you the best!

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

It doesn't ring true to me. It sounds like he is hiding something, probably affairs. That's not right. If you're planning to spend the rest of your life with this guy, you have to decide if you want to spend the rest of your life with a guy who cheats on you. Are you cheating on him? Does he have an ex girlfriend? Can you ask her? Once a cheat, most always a cheat. People can change.. but unless there's an incentive, he won't. I'd consider a talk about this with him. At least get things in the open and try to find truth. You can also be direct and ask him what his expectations of your relationship are, and does that include monogamy? Just word it carefully and follow your heart. You dont' want to marry someone who's a lying, cheating @$$.

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

i would be upset too. he is trying to hide something, which indicates he can't be trusted. if you can't trust him now, you won't be able to after the wedding. you need to decide if that is how you want to live your life. if it is, keep quiet. if not, confront him and then find someone you can trust.

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

I wouldn't be upset I'd be down right pis*** off!!! I would confront him before you make the mistake of marrying him !!! how about making a different my space page for yourself with no picture or better yet if you have a pretty friend/relative/etc that he doesn't know ask to use their picture %26amp; try talking to him %26amp; see what happens.... sneaky but isnt he??

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

yes i would be pissed my husband has a seperate account than i do but we are each others number 1 i have his password he has mine. have you sent a friend request or are you just holdin it in ask him why if he stutters and hesitates hes cheatin. some people think that myspace is for young kids or people tryin to hook up . i use it to connect with my sister in germany and my sis in law 5 states away.

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

To be honest my guess is he is hiding something and probably using it to pick up other girls or something. If it is bugging you let him know you are uncomfortable with it and you want to be in an honest relationship.

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

Well in most cases I would say its just My Space get over it but in this case i do agree w/u i would be upset my self. I know this is going to make me look bad but what ever; when I 1st started talking to my new bf I set my pg private %26amp; blocked my ex bfs friends I didnt want him to find out that I was talking to some1 else because we were still trying to work things out....Am not saying that ur bf is cheating on you but their might be a chance that he is hiding something from u

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

i'd bring it up to him. i'd say something like " i found that you had a myspace that was private. and i was wondering why you are keeping this secret from me. " and say it in a non accusing manner.

from the sounds of it it seems like he is hiding something. and when he answers your question i'd pay attention to his demenor. if he gets defensive and calls you names or says your jealous then i'd be a little more suspicious. if you ask him non accusing that is. dont just get all mad and say "WTF IS THIS!?" cuz then he'll get angry.

i would take this in to consideration of his character. would you want to marry someone who's keeping secrets?

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

He's hiding something. Create a dummy profile and ask to be his friend and find out what he's hiding. A little investigation work never hurt anyone especially if the one being investigated doesn't know.

Should I be upset that my fiancee' put his myspace page to private... without inviting me as a friend?

ask him about it. it is disrespectful and wrong to keep it from you....unless he has something to hide.